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Fall Back in Love, This Fall!
September 12, 2012
It's fall once again. The leaves are just starting to change, there's a hint of cool air and the kids are back in school!
It's a great time to find ways to fall back in love with your spouse and learn some tools for reconnecting and strengthening your relationship.
In this article, I share my thoughts on 6 statements that may be the key to life long happiness in marriage.
Tools & Tips: Keys to Life Long HappinessIn the book All There Is: Love Stories from Storycorps by David Isay, there's an essay written by an 85 year old man, Leroy Morgan about his life long marriage. Years earlier, he and his wife came across a sign that said: Successful Marriage. The sign had six statements: "You look great", "Can I help?", "Let's eat out", "I was wrong", "I am sorry", and "I love you."
These statements struck me as profoundly wise. Here's what they can mean for your marriage:
1. "You look great!" - Offering appreciation, expressions of desire, fondness and admiration are absolute keys to fostering closeness and connection. Looking good for our partners, maintaining sex appeal and all the ways we presented ourselves when we were first dating are keys to maintaining sexual attraction over the years.
Relationship Classes! Next One on CommunicationStop Arguing and Start Communicating!
Are you tired of arguing all the time? Do you feel like your partner never listens to or understands you? Are you sick of having the same discussion over and over and feeling like it never gets resolved? Take this three week class for couples on effective communication. CLASS STARTS October 16th!!
Book Recommendation: All There Is: Love Stories from StorycorpsI recently read the book, All There Is: Love Stories from Storycorps. It is truly a delightful, inspiring, funny, heartwarming book filled with stories of romantic love from all different phases of love. It's a book that can show how remarkable and powerful love is. Read it and you'll see yourselves or what you hope to have.
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There's lots to read these days and certainly not enough time to read it all. Tuck this blog away for those times when you really need to read something to get perspective on your relationship.
Also, I'm offering free articles to those who request them. Articles are entitled: "Communication: Making Your Relationship Work," "Building Closeness in Your Relationship." and
"Affair-Proofing Your Marriage." Stay tuned for future articles on other topics available by request. Click on the following link to get your free articles!
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Thank you for sharing this journey in life and love with me.
Karen Holland, LMFT 4155 E. Jewell Avenue, Ste 703 Denver, CO 80222 (720) 210-5452/office & fax
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