Musings from the Couch

Ever have those days where you're just not sure if your relationship will work? Need tools, tips and advice to make your marriage or relationship work better? In this blog I share with you from my years of experience working with couples in couples counseling. Use this site to gain perspective and learn skills to create happy, healthy relationships.

Letting Go of Resentment

Letting go of resentment to be happier and healthier

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Is alcohol hurting your relationship

Is alcohol hurting your relationship? Take this quiz and find out what to do about it.

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Love Messages That Will Totally Melt Your Lover's Heart

Check out this powerful list of love messages that will totally melt your lover's heart (and yours!)

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10 great questions to improve connection

Want to get even closer to your partner? Ask these 10 great questions to improve connection!

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How to be Supportive

Want to know how to be supportive to create a happy marriage?

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Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling- Be a smart couple and get ready for a great marriage!

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Start your relationship off right with the ultimate new relationship guide!

Get the ultimate new relationship guide to help you explore 100s of questions, learn all the best tools to help you create a happy, loving marriage!

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Emotional Spring Cleaning

Emotional Spring Cleaning: How to Clear Up the Clutter in Your Mind!

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Which Wolf Are You Feeding?

Which wolf are you feeding? We do a lot of good or a lot of damage to ourselves and our relationships depending on how we think. Read the story of the two wolves.

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How to Follow Advice for a Happy Marriage

Why don't we follow good advice even when it would make us happier? Here's how to follow good advice for a happy marriage and a happy life!

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20 Ways to Boost Intimacy and make your relationship even closer

Make your relationship even closer with 20 ways to boost intimacy

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Power of Limiting Beliefs

How do limiting beliefs actually shape our reality? And what can we do about it?

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Thinking about getting engaged? Here's how to know if you have found the one.

Wondering how to know if you have found the one? Understand the essential qualities of a healthy relationship and ask yourself these important questions before moving forward.

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Can you really save your marriage by yourself

Want to begin to save your marriage by yourself? Here's three powerful steps to begin.

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5 Daily Habits That Would Totally Transform Your Relationship

Imagine what your relationship would be like if you did these 5 daily habits that would totally transform your relationship?

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Here are my top ten essential questions to ask before getting married!

In my new relationship guide, I offer hundreds of questions to help new couples prepare for a lifetime commitment. Here I offer you 10 essential questions to ask before getting married.

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Appreciating Your Spouse

Need help appreciating your spouse? Learn some ways make them feel special and loved!

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How to Keep Your Marriage Alive: One Couple's Story

Do you want to know how to keep your marriage alive? Read one couple's story about the special dates they plan for an entire year!

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Get the essential guide for new couples!

Newly engaged or just know you've found the one? Get this essential guide and workbook with hundreds of questions, relationship checkups, stories and so much more!

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Three Surprising Things to Make Stress Reduction Easier

Want to know how to make your life less stressful? Try these great tips!

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