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Relationship Sex Quiz

Rate the Quality of your Sex Life Together

Want to know how you're doing in the bedroom? Take this quiz to rate the quality of your relationship sex!

Put a number between 1 and 5.

5 = Always

3 = Sometimes

1 = Never/Infrequently

1. We have sex as often as I would like.

2. We agree about the amount of sex we would like to have.

3. I am able to express myself sexually and be at ease with my partner.

4. Our sex is fun, playful and ever changing.

5. We make sex a priority and don't let it go too long between acts.

6. We regularly flirt with each other.

7. We read sex books or watch sexy movies together.

8. We know how the other person likes to be pleased in bed.

9. We say loving words and express loving actions to each other regularly.

10. We can read each other's "sex signals" to know when the other wants sex.


What Your Score May Mean

If you scored...

Between 40 and 45 , Congratulations! Likely you have a great sex life. Keep up the good work.

Between 30 and 40, your sex life may be somewhat satisfying but you also may find it a little boring or you're going through a slight dip right now. If you have very young children, this is normal. If you want something more fulfilling, consider these tips.

Below 30 , chances are you know your sex life isn't where you want it to be. Maybe you have young children, are under a lot of stress (health or financial issues). Or, perhaps you're disconnected altogether. If this goes on longer than 6 months to a year, I strongly encourage that you seek help from a professional to get your sex life back on track!

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